How To Get Multiple Girlfriends Using One Easy System

By meliavis | January 19, 2010

Are you having trouble getting a new girlfriend? Do you regularly feel as if women are not really interested in you?

If you answered yes to any of the questions above, you may be coming on too strong too early in your relationships.

What you must always keep in mind is that women are attracted to mystery. It can be a powerful thing to be perceived as enigmatic.

Not always knowing what’s going on in someone else’s head can be a real turn on. Not being able to read everything about a person makes the palms sweat and the heart beat more quickly. That’s why it is so much easier to fantasize about a mysterious stranger. Your curious to know more, and as such you work harder to get their attention.

To be successful in the dating game it helps if you can maintain a certain degree of mystery. Mystery sets the challenge and challenge is what new relationships are all about. By making yourself a challenge, you increase your chances of succeeding as the other person will actively seek to attain the prize.

You should remember however that mystery is different than being quiet and boring. You still need to be able to keep the fire burning, and sometimes the best way to do that is to be an active listener.

Here are a few other ideas which will help you cultivate an air of mystery.

Don’t be a workaholic bore, going on endlessly about the mundane things that happened to you this week at work.

When telling a story, keep the why and how for later in the conversation.

Just because you are planning to do something, you don’t have to tell the whole world about it. Save some things just for yourself.

Don’t make yourself always available.

Keep women on their toes, do something crazy or bold every now and then.

Never send emails and text messages on weekends and holidays.

Never ever ever ever –are we being clear enough here –talk about an ex. Even if asked, this is a no-go area. It is better to make people think you are over it.

Develop more than one group of friends.

Think like a drug dealer. Create a strong desire early, and then clamp down on the supply afterwards to keep them begging for more.

Cultivating an air of mystery takes work to get right. Also, don’t take it too far or else women will get tired of you and move on. At some point in the relationship, do not be afraid to open up and let her inside, especially if you are ready to take the relationship to the next level.

Start practicing the above tips and watch as your success in meeting new women explodes. If you want to go online to start making new freinds, I recommend http://www.matchalot.com. This is a new site, but it makes it really easy to meet new people. Happy hunting!

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Originally posted 2009-01-30 15:00:07.