Sexless Marriage Tips
By meliavis | March 4, 2010
Unfortunately, many marriages today are sexless. Couples can go for weeks, months and even years without connecting in the sexually intimate way that has been created for pleasure. The sadness that many married couples feel is palpable, and the lack of sex affects every aspect of the relationship.
Having a non romantic marriage is not what anyone plans when they walk down the aisle. It is a sad conclusion to months or years of not communicating in the right way within the marriage.
Many marriages become sexless due to the time constraints of family, financial issues, trust issues, body issues, health issues and other causes. However, the bond of marriage is meant to be strong, pleasurable and safe. The point of this article is to give some talking points and tips on re-igniting the romantic pleasures of a good marriage.
The main component of a truly intimate relationship is communication. If you are not communicating with your spouse, you will never become truly intimate. Intimacy does not mean sex. It means forming a close connection that really needs no words. Become your spouse’s friend.
There is one thing that if ever married person on the planet did each day, it would change marriages around the world. That is wake up each day thinking “How can I make my spouse’s life better today?” That is the simple message that marriage should provide. What can I do to life him/her up today? What can I do to bring a smile to their face? What can I do to surprise my spouse? How can I give of myself?
A special note for women: Most men are physical creatures. They feel love from you when you are being physically intimate with them. If you don’t have sex or even kiss, you are saying to them that you do not love them.
A note for the men: Women need to feel love before rushing into the bedroom. Women do not have an on and off switch. They need to be treasured and respected yesterday before they can have sex today.
Sexless marriages can be very painful because the strong connection a couple feels during the sexual act is very important to the health of the relationship. It is not the physical nature of sex that is most important, but the spiritual and emotional aspects of that release and trust during sex.
Having a sexless marriage can lead to affairs and to the end of the marriage, so it is vitally important to take an active role in resolving the issues. Sometimes not having sex becomes a habit that needs to be replaced with a new habit.
Thankfully, you can learn techniques that will help you overcome your marital issues and put you back on the right track in your marriage. Read more about these techniques here: HOW TO SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE and INTIMACY AND MARRIAGE
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Originally posted 2009-03-16 07:01:19.
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March 7th, 2010 at 10:31 pm
I certainly think I qualify as being in a sexless marriage, its been about the last 20 years now. Were in
our 60s when married we had sex about 23 years on and off, we would go for months without and a couple of days with sex. Were both at fault, I have a big tendency to be in control of everything. It all has to happen on my terms. I don’t let my husband just go out, he really has no real freinds.. I tell him all the time to stay away from other women. And when I go out he dosen’t really care how long or with who. He just tells me have fun and if theres any problems call me. I think I could have an affare and he wouldn’t say anything.
And he on the other had has said I just don’t want sex or be intimant with me. I was hurt!! Also he was not interested anymore, sex has no excitment, meaning, thrill what ever you call it. Now he has high blood pressure, cholesterol, sleep issues, ulcers,slight depression and he takes pills for all that and his sex desire is gone. Hes been to doc and tryed viagra passed out on low dosage, pump but nothing works. Our sex life is gone forever.