The New Sensual Massage – How to Use the Power of Touch to Give Pleasure and Healing

By meliavis | February 11, 2010

The art of sensual message is becoming increasingly popular. The stress and strain of modern life has created a need for relaxation and physical release. The Sensual Couples Massage relaxes, invigorates and creates joy and abandon in those who participate in it.

Nothing feels better than the firm yet gentle touch of the person you love. Abandoning our defenses, letting down our guard, relaxing into the warmth of touch is life altering. Add the wonder of scent to the mix and you can create a romantic moment like none other.

If you choose to gift your partner with a sensual massage you will be giving yourself a gift as well. While you touch and explore his/her body and take those special moments to be intimate and loving you will find yourself relaxed and invigorated.

Touch can be magical to both giver and receiver. The new sensual massage can be invited into any situation but planning ahead can make it even more special. Send your loved one a message by phone or text inviting them to an evening of touch. Set the tone with soft music, low lights, and a heady mix of candles, lotions and aromas.

You will find essential oils for any occasion. Choose mandarin or nutmeg for stimulation; mint or orange to invigorate; chamomile or lavender for relaxation; rosewood or sandalwood for seduction; cinnamon or jasmine for seduction.

Whether you use a massage table or a bed, make sure it is warm and comfortable in the room. Make sure neither of you are hungry or thirsty nor still full from eating. You do not want any physical distractions.

Begin your Tantric massage by having your partner lie on their back. A full body message is always the best. You can work in any order that feels comfortable to you but keep at least one hand in contact with your partner at all times. Warm any oils you use in your hands before applying.

You can start with your partner’s feet; make sure you work both sides equally. Gently message all parts of the foot, including each toe, arch and ankle, working your way up each leg. Keep yourself relaxed as you go, making an effort not to tense your own muscles as you are working. Practice deep breathing as you go.

Use smooth, rhythmic strokes being carefully not to move suddenly or unexpectedly. The key to the sensual massage is touch of all kinds. Gentle, soft, firm, but constant. A full body message should last a minimum of 30 minutes, so pace yourself if you are the giver. The receiver will be comfortable for hours.

The sensual couple massage involves taking turns with a full body massage and can go as far as your imagination can take you. Spend plenty of time with each other learning the curves and valleys of each other’s bodies and indulging each other without expectation. Revel in gentle kisses and reap the rewards of giving slowly and freely to one another.

Originally posted 2009-06-09 03:27:38.

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